So when is the perfect age to get married ?

I met up with a group of friends 2 days ago, we were secondary school classmates before. One is missing, as all of us have decided not to include her. She's the one that's always spoiling the party. I've talk about her in the last post. She'll come to these gatherings & tell us how successful all of us are, except her. She has gotten married only 1 year after graduation, while some of us are not even attached now !

The baby came soon after, so she's busy with motherhood, while all of us are kinda enjoying our single life. We can empathize but it had gotten real bad. She had started making all of us feel really bad. As if we have left her behind on purpose while we go on with our 'glamorous life'. We end up talking about why each of us stopped calling her.

The common consensus is that, she made us seem like villains. It's crazy. Though she'll refuse to admit, it's really about her regretting getting married & having a baby too soon. We cringe at the thought of having to take care of a baby, a home, a husband & in-laws at this moment. Of course in the future, we'll all want a family of some kind, but certainly not now .... we are still young.

So when is the perfect age to get married for a girl? 30, 35? Would that be too late for babies? Not if you do not want a child. Strangely it seems, it's not so important for us, but if the other party wanted children, ok then no choice. LOL.... We seem to agree with that!

We have nothing against babies, as long as it's not mine ....lol....