I've finally open the Christmas present from my EX, it's a very nice bracelet from Tiffany's which I love. Sigh.... As you all know my EX & I are still friends. So I texted to say "thank you & you shouldn't have, since we are no longer attached." Then he said, "I saw the bracelet, & couldn't stop thinking you'll love it, so I bought it ". Now I wander what will his present girl friend think of that!
Anyway , Yesterday morning he text me, " what is it I heard about this Hank guy? You dating him?"
I don't know, I immediately felt a little angry- how dare he? We broke
up, he has no rights to "check" on me like that. Plus Hank the guy that I
went out with only twice so far (after knowing him for about 4-5
months) , is not as good looking as my ex. Also financially not as
stable, so in a way it's like I've done "worst" since the break-up ! My
ego was hurt. But Hank is a nice guy, very considerate maybe too nice
for me!
Mel the colleague who had introduce Hank to me
on her wedding day (can you imagine!!!!) thinks that my EX is not over
me yet. Anyway I don't know what's the deal, but after a few heated
texts, we decided to meet for lunch. I wanted to tell him off to his
face.
Lunch was too elaborate, at a fancy place. It
felt like a date, which I'm wary of. My bestie reminded me, the reason
why we broke off, so I'm suppose to just be polite , tell him off, or to
mind his own business, eat my lunch & go back home or go shopping. He arrived
wearing the first tie I bought for him. I should have throw it away, when I
have the chance. Anyway we were talking & he has to go into why am
I 'short changing ' myself with someone who's clearly not my equal (
meaning someone who's making less than me ). I shouldn't have agree to
this lunch. I immediately felt like seeing Hank tonight, just to get
back at the Ex.
I quickly finish lunch, tell him how
wonderful Hank is, which I could see pisses him off. We parted , both
angry, as usual! I texted Hank, arranged for dinner !